One of the biggest misconceptions about estate planning is that once you sign your documents, you’re finished forever.
In reality, your estate plan should grow and change as your life changes. Think of it like updating your insurance policies or reviewing your retirement accounts every so often. Your will, trust, powers of attorney, and beneficiary designations should continue to reflect your current wishes, not the life you had five, ten, or twenty years ago.
We’ve met with many clients who created an estate plan years earlier and assumed they never needed to look at it again. Then life happened. They got married, welcomed children, bought a new home, or experienced the loss of a loved one. Suddenly, the plan that once fit their life perfectly no longer reflected what they wanted.
While it’s a good idea to review your estate plan every few years, there are certain life events that should prompt you to schedule an update sooner rather than later.
Here are five of the biggest reasons to revisit your estate plan.
1. You Get Married
Marriage is one of the most significant life changes you can experience, and it often affects nearly every part of your financial and legal life.
After getting married, many people want to update their estate plan to include their new spouse. That may mean naming them as a beneficiary, appointing them as a personal representative or trustee, or giving them authority to act under a power of attorney if something happens to you.
Marriage may also change how you want your assets divided. Perhaps you want to provide for your spouse while also protecting children from a previous relationship. Or maybe you’re combining finances and purchasing property together for the first time.
Whatever your situation, your estate plan should reflect your new family and your current wishes.
2. You Get Divorced
Divorce is another major reason to review your estate planning documents.
Many people assume that once the divorce is finalized, everything automatically updates. Unfortunately, that is not always the case.
Depending on your documents and your state’s laws, an ex-spouse could still be named as a beneficiary, trustee, executor, health care agent, or attorney-in-fact. If you don’t review your estate plan after a divorce, you may unintentionally leave important decision-making authority in the hands of someone you no longer want involved.
A divorce is also an opportunity to rethink who you trust to manage your affairs and who should inherit your assets. Taking the time to update your documents can help ensure they accurately reflect this new chapter of your life.
3. You Have a Child
Welcoming a child into your family changes your priorities almost overnight.
For many parents, this is the moment when estate planning becomes much more personal.
If you have minor children, one of the most important decisions you’ll make is naming a guardian. This allows you to choose who would care for your children if something unexpected happened to you.
You’ll also want to think about how any inheritance should be managed. Rather than leaving money outright to a young child, many parents choose to create a trust that allows a trusted adult to manage those funds until the child reaches an age or milestone you select. This provides flexibility while helping protect the child’s financial future.
Your estate plan should give you peace of mind that your children will be cared for according to your wishes.
4. Someone Named in Your Estate Plan Passes Away
Your estate plan depends on the people you’ve chosen to carry out your wishes.
Over time, those individuals may pass away, become incapacitated, move away, or simply no longer be the best choice.
For example, your personal representative, successor trustee, guardian, or one of your beneficiaries may no longer be available to serve.
If that happens, it’s important to review your documents and make sure you’ve named appropriate replacements. Having updated backup choices can help prevent unnecessary complications and ensure your plan continues to work as intended when your family needs it most.
5. You Buy a Major Asset, Like a House
Buying a home is exciting, but it’s also a great reminder to review your estate plan.
If you’ve created a revocable living trust, purchasing real estate may mean transferring ownership of that property into the trust. This is often referred to as “funding” your trust, and it’s an important step in making sure the trust functions the way it was designed.
The same idea applies to other significant assets as your financial picture changes. While not every new asset requires changes to your estate planning documents, it’s always worth reviewing your plan to make sure everything works together and your overall goals are still being met.
The Bottom Line
Your estate plan is not meant to sit untouched in a drawer for decades. It’s a living set of documents that should evolve as your life evolves.
Marriage, divorce, welcoming children, losing loved ones, and purchasing major assets are all good reminders to review your plan. Even if you’re not sure whether changes are necessary, having an attorney review your documents can give you confidence that everything still reflects your wishes and works together the way it should.
If any of these life events sound familiar, now is a great time for an estate planning checkup. We’d be happy to review your current plan, discuss any changes in your life, and help ensure your documents continue to protect you and the people you care about most.
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